In Byron Katie's second book, she makes a tiny mention of telling her son that it's okay to be ordinary. I found that comment so provocative. Out of the whole book, that comment has stayed with me for over a year. I found myself thinking about it this morning while walking the dogs. While I would love to know what she meant, I also realize it doesn't really matter. What matters is that I find my meaning it it.
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About five years ago, I was really into some of work by Caroline Myss Ph.D. She had a new book out then, Sacred Contracts. It was about Archetypes. I spent several months with that material. Out of it all, only one statement remains in my mind. It resonated at the time and I've never forgotten it. I learned that I had a "desire to inspire." I had no idea how to actually put that into practice though and shortly afterwards, I started a new job which lead me in new directions. However, this morning I was thinking about that phrase and I realized that for three of the past four years, I had been paid to inspire people!
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To me, it's a little ironic that somehow, someway, the work I do involves helping people with decisions about what career to choose and with decisions about how to get there. In fact, several times a year, I teach workshops on that. I say it's ironic because I feel like I've spent all my adult life not knowing what I want to do. But even as I write this, I am getting some clarity. It's BECAUSE of my twenty years of searching and trying to understand what my purpose it, that I have even the smallest amount of skill to help other people with this.
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